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  • The Manitoban horoscope for the week of Sept. 7

    The Manitoban horoscope for the week of Sept. 7

    Aquarius

    January 20 – February 18

    Aquarius, do not fret. The solution to your problem is just within reach. Do not go searching for answers this week, because the solution will find you whether you want it or not.

     

    Pisces

    February 19 – March 20

    Pisces, I am going to give you some tough love. You need to contribute more. Don’t let people overcompensate for what you’re not giving back into the relationship and make sure you know when to reciprocate.

     

    Aries

    March 21 – April 19

    Dear Aries, I am sensing some tension in your life. If someone tries to dump their problems on you this week, try to avoid it as best you can, or you might be weighed down.

     

    Taurus 

    April 20 – May 20

    Taurus, you may be receiving some good news this week or experience some more steadiness in your day-to-day schedule going into this week. Make sure you live in the present for the good moments this week.

     

    Gemini

    May 21 – June 20

    Gemini, you will be tempted to hang out with your friends this week, but do not deplete your savings. You need to pay for rent and utilities. Do not run yourself dry on money this week in exchange for a good time.

     

    Cancer

    June 21 – July 22

    Cancers, I want you to know that you can follow your own path instead of doing what your family wants. It’s okay to follow your passions instead of the way of practicality.

     

    Leo

    July 23 – August 22

    Leos, I have a secret for you — you’re not as sly as you think. If you have feelings for someone, you should say something instead of keeping it to yourself. Take this as your sign from the universe.

     

    Virgo

    August 23 – September 22

    Virgos, go to school! You may be feeling the urge to start skipping this early into the semester, but it’s only the first week. Please listen to me when I tell you school is not as optional as you think it is.

     

    Libra

    September 23 – October 22

    Libras, keep your friends close this week. Something in the air is telling me this might be a difficult week for you. Try to hang out with your friends or loved ones to combat potential sadness.

     

    Scorpio

    October 23 – November 21

    Scorpios, go out and have fun this week. You may like to stay home, but don’t limit yourself to the confines of your house. Go out to a bar, maybe and have some fun. 

     

    Sagittarius

    November 22 – December 21

    Sagittarius, go to the doctor and stop avoiding the healthcare system just because you’re afraid of what they might say. Take initiative and make that phone call to make an appointment. 

     

    Capricorn 

    December 22 – January 19
    Capricorns, word of advice — everything may not be what it seems. You might not want to be so trusting. I sense someone soon may use it to their advantage to deceive you.

  • How Buffy the Vampire Slayer changed 90s television

    How Buffy the Vampire Slayer changed 90s television

    Imagine you open your browser and it’s 2016. You Google the words “Buffy the Vampire Slayer full episodes online,” the air has just turned to autumn, and you’re freshly in high school with nothing better to do than watch 90s TV programs.

    Binge-watching Buffy for the first time was a cultural revelation for me. Watching a young woman battle hordes of monsters to protect humanity’s fate was another thing altogether. I was, as one would say, inspired. I donned a leather jacket and bought myself some leather pants that, looking back, were probably too tight. 

    The show’s brilliance lies not only in Sarah Michelle Gellar’s phenomenal acting but in the program’s ability to weave metaphors into almost every episode. The monsters are not just demons, but expressions of the horrors of growing up in almost every episode. A mother steals her daughter’s body in one episode, trying to relive her adolescence. The town is named Sunnydale, but in actuality is a gateway to Hell dubbed the “Hellmouth,” showing that although high school may be hell, maybe that small town you live in isn’t as perfect and innocent as you thought either — especially when your boyfriend turns evil right after sleeping with him, and you are forced to confront the loss of childhood innocence. 

    The show was by no means perfect in every episode. Sometimes the acting could only be described as cringy, the CGI in season six was abysmal and sometimes, on occasion, the episodes were just badly written. Despite these flaws, I think the show was one of the first to talk about teenage problems without romanticizing certain aspects, touching on topics of addiction, grief, queer identity, depression and uncertainty. 

    Buffy, in my books, remains untouchable in the land of television, producing 144 episodes starting in 1997 and concluding in 2003. The show, unlike other television programs in the early 2000s, had a complex and strong female lead whose character was not oriented toward a male love interest. Like many female leads at this time, Sarah Michelle Gellar was a conventionally attractive woman. Unlike television in the late 90s, where women were often portrayed as tragic heroines, she would meet monsters in dark alleys and kick their asses.

    Many others view Buffy the Vampire Slayer as an important stepping stone in television history. Professor Matthew Pateman, head of English and creative arts at Edge Hill University, first started introducing Buffy as a lecture topic in the early 2000s as a part of popular culture, later writing a book titled The Aesthetics of Culture in Buffy the Vampire Slayer.

    Despite Buffy having concluded well over a decade ago, fans, including myself, cannot help but rewatch it over and over again. I think there’s something nostalgic in seeing the fuzzy camera quality which Buffy was filmed with and living vicariously through the characters, because all I wanted to be was to be Buffy.

    For others who still reminisce about the world of Buffy, I would say you’re definitely not alone. For anyone who wants to watch it this fall season, I would highly recommend you do that.

  • I am more than one thing

    I am more than one thing

    I love being a multidimensional woman. I love not fitting in a box, not being what people perceive me as. There is a different feeling of freedom that comes with being a woman who does not make sense to people.

    I think being a woman means being handed a box as a little girl and being taught how to fit yourself into it — and especially, how to stay there, conformed. You play with dolls, play house and are conditioned to only like “girly things.” 

    You subtly learn what is expected of you and what is not. Then you grow up and realize you want to be more than who you thought you were allowed to be.

    Suddenly, you don’t fit in your box anymore, so you start cutting parts of yourself to squeeze back inside.

    Choice becomes a constant in your life. Do you make yourself miserable, or choose happiness and risk being criticized for it? Do you choose freedom, or love, at the expense of your identity? Why does being a woman so often feel like choosing one part of yourself over another?

    Contradictions exist in everyone because we are human. We are not meant to remain one thing. We evolve, grow and change. Yet contradictions in women are often seen as reckless and as things that need explaining.

    It took me a long time to reconcile my own clashing personalities — or at least what others deemed as such. How could I be the only Muslim woman wearing a headscarf in my swimming class? How could I be among the only two women in my boxing class?

    How could I be someone who everyone thought was sweet yet have boundaries? How could I be a good daughter and do what made me happy?

    Culture and tradition have an evil way of masking expectations as virtues. You learn that being loved means being easy to accommodate, and being good means being agreeable. Eventually, you become so accustomed to being perceived that you begin perceiving yourself.

    For a long time, it felt like there was a theatre in my head, an audience watching while I performed. Every decision seemed to contradict another part of who I was. But who was I performing for? Who was I disappointing, if not myself, by denying myself freedom simply because someone might perceive me differently?

    There is nobody to perform for. No audience. Nothing to earn — not respect, not approval, not love.

    When I think of all the amazing women around me, including my mother, I see the millions of different things they have dared to be throughout their lives despite everything. They are soft and stubborn, loving and independent, traditional and unconventional, sometimes all at once. I want to be like other women.

    Maybe that is also why girls have always loved Barbie. “There is so much more to me,” she sings in Barbie: A Fairy Secret. And there always was.

    Barbie could be strong and still be soft. She could be unapologetically feminine without femininity being the entirety of who she was. She could fall in love and have a boyfriend without her story beginning and ending with him. She could be a princess in one story and something completely different in the next, and none of those versions made the others less real.

    Maybe we were never supposed to choose. Maybe being a woman is being allowed to be all of it.

     

  • The Manitoban horoscope for the week of August 31

    The Manitoban horoscope for the week of August 31

    Aquarius

    January 20 – February 18

    Dear Aquarius, do not ponder too hard on that choice you made. The time has passed, you need to move on. You cannot change time. It’s okay to make bad choices, but don’t let this become a habit.

     

    Pisces

    February 19 – March 20

    Pisces, I’m sorry to say an Aries or a Libra might be mad at you in these upcoming weeks. Prepare yourself, this will not be resolved easily. You may have to repent for your actions.

     

    Aries

    March 21 – April 19

    Dear Aries, you need to do yoga. You need to calm down, there’s no need to get that angry over the little things. Just because your sister forgot to do something doesn’t mean you need to get this angry, do some reflecting.

     

    Taurus 

    April 20 – May 20

    Taurus, do not quit your job. You might be hating your job right now but do not quit. Try to stick it out just a little bit longer so you don’t do something you may regret.

     

    Gemini

    May 21 – June 20

    Gemini, the Púca may be watching you. This may bring good or bad luck to you. Be careful where you step this week, avoid cracks and do not make enemies this week. 

     

    Cancer

    June 21 – July 22

     

    Cancers, you need to take responsibility for something you did to hurt someone and now you are pulling away because you are embarrassed. You need to make amends and show you are sorry.

     

    Leo

    July 23 – August 22

    Leos, you need to be more confident. Stop holding back on things because you’re scared of failing. Everyone fails sometimes, it’s okay to fail. Do not let fear stop you.

     

    Virgo

    August 23 – September 22

    Virgos, you need to resolve your issues with your mother. I did your tarot cards for the week, and it’s showing you have unresolved problems with her. Make amends with your mom.

     

    Libra

    September 23 – October 22

    Libras, eat healthier. Eating Kraft Dinner every week will not save you. It’s okay to eat junk sometimes, but try to balance it with healthy meals in between the Kraft Dinner.

     

    Scorpio

    October 23 – November 21

    Scorpios, start fresh with something that excites you. Stop trying to pretend to like things you don’t. Do not be surprised if new opportunities come knocking at your door this week.

    Sagittarius

    November 22 – December 21

    Sagittarius, you need to get serious about your professional life. Where is your career trajectory headed? What do you plan on doing in the future? You need to start asking yourself the tough questions.

     

    Capricorn 

    December 22 – January 19

    Capricorns, you need to start leaving your house more for fun, not just for work. You need to revive plans or opportunities you may have cancelled to make time for work. Try to make time for yourself.

  • French is crucial to Canadian identity

    French is crucial to Canadian identity

    Earlier last week, Mark Carney withdrew from trade negotiations between Canada and the U.S. over the protection of the French language. You may be asking what this means.

    Trump is ultimately seeking agreements to discourage the promotion of French-language cultural content. This raises the question of why Trump would intentionally target the French language and heritage as a point of contention in national trade deals.

    Language is not only part of identity but also of culture. Protecting the language is protecting culture amid a mass identity crisis in a predominantly English-speaking Canada.

    Bill 96 is the province’s way of strengthening the French language in Quebec, requiring products sold in Quebec to include packaging facts and instructions in French.

     For manufacturers in the U.S., this means producing separate packaging for Quebec residents. Quebec Premier Christine Fréchette spoke out, describing Trump’s demands as a “red line,” and added, “our culture, our language, is central to our identity, and it is important to exclude that from the negotiating table.” For many, it’s a way to safeguard cultural identity. 

    Amid Trump’s growing resentment for Canada, I can’t help but find it ironic that many American citizens are actively applying for proof of Canadian citizenship as a plan B surrounded by the ongoing human rights violations and cruelty being perpetuated by Trump and his administration. 

    Despite Trump trying to create a form of erasure with the French language, I believe it’s vital to preserve Quebec as a French-speaking hub but also a multicultural one. 

    It’s not only Quebec whose French identity is being threatened, but beyond la belle province du Québec.

    French speakers appear all over Canada, but speaking for Winnipeg, St. Boniface is a little slice of France on the Prairies. This Franco-Métis community is home to festivals such as Festival du Voyageur and attractions such as Saint-Boniface Cathedral and Le Musée de Saint-Boniface Museum.

    French culture is everywhere, and when identity is threatened to this degree by a country we consider our neighbour, this is nothing if not an attack on identity, exacerbated in one of the most callous ways by using tariffs as a form of exploitation over Canada.

    French-Canadian sovereignty has been present in Canada for at least 200 years, enduring a long, significant decrease in French speakers in Canada. I am sure that Quebec can handle one moody president with an affliction to cruelty.

    Language is the facilitator of cultural connection. It builds group identity and helps communities share values. When language is taken away, it threatens identity and heritage. 

    Trump will never fully achieve what I assume his goal to be — to limit cultural connections between communities. French language is not negotiable, it’s imperative.

     

  • Why I love being an unc

    Why I love being an unc

    I have always been an “unc,” despite only being in my early twenties. 

    According to the Merriam-Webster Dictionary, the word unc comes from African-American English and is an abbreviation of uncle. The term was originally used for uncles or older men, but in recent years the internet has appropriated the word, using “unc status” to describe someone who acts older than their age in addition to people who are old or getting old. 

    I first noticed my unc status at age 15 during a trip to Italy. I desperately wanted to spend time admiring medieval and Renaissance art or bask in the splendour of Gothic cathedrals. My peers, however, were far more interested in taking photos for social media. I quickly realized I had different interests and priorities compared to others in my age group. It certainly did not help that I was nicknamed Gramps for the rest of that trip. 

    Being an old soul can be isolating. I am often the only person in the audience without grey hair at a classical music concert (and the only person of colour, too). It also prompts strange reactions. I mentally brace myself for the awkward silence and blank stares that typically ensue when I tell people I unironically play fiddle music. I am mad for tweed blazers and wool sweaters, or “old people clothes,” as many in my life have lovingly put it. 

    Despite my work in arts and culture, I find it difficult to follow popular culture, and I am frequently lost in conversations about the latest trends and celebrities. I am somehow both chronically online and perpetually out of the loop. If you have ever approached me with a piece of celebrity gossip, I probably had no idea who you were talking about, sorry. This comes from a place of genuine disinterest, but I would be lying if I said I did not actively avoid the mass-produced and algorithm-driven content designed to be nothing more than a cash grab. Does my “unc-ness” come with a tinge of snobbery? Perhaps.

    It is also disappointing that the resurgence in vintage fashion and lifestyles, particularly in online spaces, is sometimes accompanied by conservatism, with people blindly romanticising the “good old days” without critical evaluation of the racial and gender inequalities of the time. I, for one, have no desire to align myself with these notions, and my affinity for old things does not extend to outdated values and bigoted beliefs. 

    However, on the flip side, having unusual interests makes my relationship with those who can match my wavelength extra precious, and some of the best moments of my life have been spent with people who are equally as oddly specific and nerdy about cultural history as I am. It allows me to identify the people who matter, and I do everything to nurture meaningful connections with them. 

    More importantly, I slowly realized that people who just don’t get it might shrug or give me an odd look, but they quickly move on with their lives. It is true that we all make value judgments of other people, whether consciously or not, but life is too short to be preoccupied with what someone may or may not be thinking inside their heads.

    It is also entirely possible that I have lost the plot. Perhaps I have been overly focusing on my differences with people and overlooking our commonalities. I like to think that human beings are infinitely complicated and diverse, and there are always facets of our psyche that are incomprehensible to anyone but ourselves. Maybe being peculiar in our own ways is just a part of what it means to be human. 

    I am aware of the great risk of sounding “woe is me” with this article. I can assure you that I am not trying to make myself a martyr over a trivial issue, and we all know there are bigger fish to fry in the grand scheme of things. I am not bashing conformity either, and there is a right time and place for expressing oneself. But embracing my unconventional side is one of the most liberating things I have done for myself, as cliché as it may be. 

    In the meantime, I will continue to yearn for antique dark wood furniture and go on long walks to nowhere in particular. If you ever see me wearing a grandpa sweater and a flat cap on campus, know that it is my way of living authentically — and I urge everyone to find their own way of achieving that.

  • The Manitoban horoscope for the week of Aug. 24

    The Manitoban horoscope for the week of Aug. 24

    Aquarius

    January 20 – February 18

    Dear Aquarius, if you feel a pull toward the forest, do not go, as a journey you are not ready for may await you. Do not fret too much about choosing not to proceed.

     

    Pisces

    February 19 – March 20

    Pisces, you need to stand up for yourself. Stop letting other people make decisions for you. Branch out, figure out who you are without the preconceived notions of who people think you have to be. 

     

    Aries

    March 21 – April 19

    Dear Aries, I say you adopt that cat you’ve been planning to adopt for years. What’s stopping you? Take this as your sign from the universe to go out and do something you’ve always wanted to do but never had the guts to.

     

    Taurus

    April 20 – May 20

    Taurus, as Billy Idol sings, “When there’s nothing to lose, and there’s nothing to prove, and I’m dancing with myself.” You never have to prove anything to anyone else but yourself. Stop trying to make others happy at the expense of yourself.

     

    Gemini

    May 21 – June 20

    Gemini, you need to learn how to joke sometimes. Not everything is do or die. It’s okay to relinquish control sometimes and see where the wind will take you. Go with the flow more often. 

     

    Cancer

    June 21 – July 22

    Cancers, unplug from the matrix and get off your phone. Go for a walk, read a book. I worry that life may be passing by without you even noticing. Your phone is not your life! For this week, challenge yourself to put down your device. 

     

    Leo

    July 23 – August 22

    Leo, try not to fight with your sibling this week. I sense some tension within your family atmosphere. Maybe put the fighting on pause for this week and become friends again. Sometimes knowing when to stop is your biggest asset.


    Virgo

    August 23 – September 22

    Virgos, you need to learn to take responsibility for your actions. You cannot keep believing everyone else is always at fault. You are indeed very smart but need to do some soul searching this week.  

     

    Libra

    September 23 – October 22

    Libras, you know I love you, but this wishy-washy attitude needs to stop. Stop pretending not to care about things. That’s not cool. Wanna know what is cool? Caring about things passionately.

     

    Scorpio

    October 23 – November 21

    Scorpios, you need to watch Glee. I don’t know why, but I feel as though the character Sue Sylvester would resonate with you so much so that she may become this year’s
    Halloween costume for you. 

     

    Sagittarius

    November 22 – December 21

    Sagittarius, do not waste your time on people who do not appreciate you. You wear your heart on your sleeve, and sometimes you get hurt. Try to notice this week when people might take advantage of your kindness.

     

    Capricorn 

    December 22 – January 19

    Capricorns, you might be receiving bad news this week. I cannot tell you when, but I feel it in the crisp air turning from summer to fall. Prepare yourself before the other shoe might drop.

  • LARP, why not?

    LARP, why not?

    I was only eight years old in 2011, but I distinctly remember being a fan of Disney Channel and Nickelodeon. My favourite shows included Austin & Ally, Good Luck Charlie and The Next Step. All of these shows shared a similar theme of teenagers navigating drama and complicated family dynamics that occasionally dragged on for multiple episodes. 

    One 2011 episode of Good Luck Charlie stuck with me in particular. The plot was typical, the main character, Teddy, was seeing a potential love interest. As usual, it chugged along with Teddy being invited on a date. The episode ended with her date bringing her to a live-action role-play (LARP) event. The show portrayed LARPing as a stereotypical “nerdy guy” activity, depicting it as something exclusive to hyperactive teenage boys running around the park in homemade costumes.

    In the early 2010s, the media frequently associated LARPing with men and attached a negative connotation to the hobby. Movies and television episodes often shamed and shunned participants, using the community as both the punchline and joke. 

    LARPing is defined by participants’ physical and mental absorption in a storyline or story world, played out in a specified location during a fixed time period. Unlike the damaging portrayal in most early 2010s media, LARPing is a well-organized community based on having fun and supporting one another. 

    That was how I found myself in a field in the middle of nowhere at the end of July in the sweltering summer heat surrounded by hundreds of people from all different backgrounds. Like many others present at the event, I shrouded myself in a flowy skirt, a shirt with billowing sleeves and donned my hennin — a cone-shaped hat commonly worn by 15th century aristocratic women — for the 2026 Cooks Creek Medieval Feast and Festival from July 24 to 26. 

    LARPing is considered a hobby with hundreds of thousands of participants from around the globe gathering in one place to participate in a wide range of events. Cooks Creek events consisted of jousting, music in the cathedral, a market, puppet shows, a large feast and demonstrations from the Historical Armored Combat Sports Association and the Valour Historical European Martial Arts Academy, with some of these events running all weekend while others ran on only some days. 

    LARP is not just for hyperactive teenage boys, despite the media’s portrayal. LARPing is for everyone, and I mean everyone. I met doctors who were clothed in monster masks, friends wearing almost identical hennins to mine, older community members, people from Norway and Australia who were jousting in the competition and also my boss at the Manitoban. 

    LARPing creates community. I had the pleasure of interacting with the world’s oldest jouster, both in medieval history and in present-day, 80-year-old Darrell Bossley. Sir Darrell prefers to ride horses rather than to walk anywhere. This retired blacksmith and self-declared lover of adrenaline sports has a long history of loving and being around horses. Sir Darrell proves that it’s never too late to dive into your passions and hobbies. 

    LARP is special in the way it creates communities, bringing childhood passions to the forefront as people discuss medieval facts and characters, watch some jousting and enjoy some really good food. 

    LARP allows an escape from reality that other things don’t allow for completely. Next time a medieval festival is in your neck of the woods, I suggest you go, not just for the community, but for the fun times of running around in a costume you normally wouldn’t wear.

  • Africa, Mama

    Africa, Mama

    “If you know your history, you would know where you’re coming from, then you wouldn’t have to ask me, who the heck do I think I am.”

    I heard it first from Bob Marley but I am not sure if he invented the saying. But, through “Buffalo Soldier,” he helped generations of listeners to reflect on it. The line has since struck me as more than a reminder to learn dates, names and events. It is a reminder that history shapes how we understand ourselves. And perhaps nowhere is this more complicated than among Africans and people of African descent living in the diaspora.

    Somewhere, deep in our minds, it can become remarkably easy to bring race into the room when we are trying to explain our lives. Why have I not achieved what I thought I would by now? Is it racism? Why am I being treated differently? Is it because I am Black? Why is getting a job so difficult? Why do some people still react surprised or even amazed that I can speak English this well? Is it because I am African? Why is dating so complicated? Why does society seem to expect something different, usually more, from me? Does being African or Black affect how people see me?

    Sometimes, the answer is yes.

    Race matters. Racism does exist. White supremacy still exists. The histories of slavery, colonialism and racial exclusion have not simply disappeared because we have entered 2026. They have shaped institutions, economies, cultural representations and social relationships, and their effects can continue to be felt in the lives of Black people and Africans across the world.

    But there is another question worth asking. What happens when race becomes the lens through which we begin to interpret everything about ourselves?

    This is not a call to stop identifying racial discrimination when it happens. Rather, it is an invitation to examine what happens when a history of racialization becomes so deeply embedded in our consciousness that we begin to understand even ourselves primarily through the categories imposed upon us.

    Because white supremacy does not only operate by telling other people that we are inferior. Its deeper success is achieved when its assumptions become so familiar that we begin to measure ourselves against them.

    To understand why this happens, we must understand what Africans and people of African descent have been made to carry. The histories of slavery and colonialism did not merely involve the extraction of labour, land and resources. They also involved the production of ideas about who Africans were. Africans were repeatedly represented as uncivilized, childlike, incapable of self-government and in need of European intervention.

    The violence was therefore very much psychological.

    A system that has told people that they are inferior eventually creates a problem that extends beyond the people doing the telling. It creates the possibility that the people being described will begin to ask whether the description is true. If we also consider the complicated relationship some Black Americans have historically had with being identified as African, we see it is easy to dismiss such distancing as ignorance, internalized racism or, in the language of the internet, “delulu.” But can we really blame someone for reacting defensively to an identity that a society has spent generations teaching them to associate with backwardness? If “Africa” has been repeatedly painted as less civil, prosperous or modern, then rejecting an association with Africa can become a form of psychological self-protection.

    That does not make the rejection historically accurate, but it makes it understandable. And that distinction matters. The problem is not simply that some people do not know African history. The problem is that many of us have inherited a version of African history that begins with our supposed deficiency.

    We are taught about slavery before we are taught about the civilizations that existed before it. We learn about colonial conquest without always learning enough about the societies that were conquered. We hear about African poverty without adequately understanding the historical and political processes that helped produce contemporary inequalities. We are often introduced to Africa through what it lacks.

    Africa was never simply the recipient of civilization. 

    This is where remembering history becomes important, as Marley pointed out. Africa did not begin with European colonialism. Her societies were not waiting in history for Europe to arrive and introduce civilization. Her peoples across the continent developed complex political systems, economic networks, philosophies, intellectual traditions, technologies, agricultural practices, architecture and forms of social organization. Civilizations across the continent participated in regional and long-distance trade and produced remarkable cultural and material achievements.

    I am not romanticizing Africa. Africa continues to experience her own fair share of conflict, inequality, political failure, exploitation, patriarchy, corruption and countless other problems. Africans should be able to criticize these realities honestly and criticism is not contempt. But acknowledging African problems does not require concluding that Africans are inherently problematic. That distinction is essential.

    The goal is to remember simply, accurately and importantly that Europe is not the yardstick.

    Africa is not valuable because it resembles Europe. African people are not valuable because Europeans recognize their value. African humanity precedes the racial hierarchy imposed upon it. 

    What, then, do we carry that we must remember from history?

    We carry the memory of survival and of resistance. We carry languages, music, literature, food, spirituality, philosophy, kinship systems, artistic traditions and forms of community that survived attempts to erase or subordinate them. We carry creativity, strength and belonging. This keeps us going and moving. I say, this is what matters. Therefore, we cannot let race become the only lens through which we interpret everything about ourselves.

    The question now is not simply, “Who is preventing me?” It is “Given the history I have inherited, what am I going to do with what I carry?” 

    To know history is not to become trapped in it. It is to decide what deserves to be preserved, challenged and left behind. Marley’s “Buffalo Soldier” reminds us that identity can be complicated and people can carry histories they did not choose. But we must remember. Not because our ancestors’ suffering is all we have, but because forgetting leaves other people to tell us who we are. 

    Europe is not Africa’s reference point. 

    To know this is to finally stop asking whether we are enough according to someone else’s measure.

  • Be a traveller, not a tourist

    Be a traveller, not a tourist

    If you’ve ever had the privilege of travelling, you’ve probably heard the stereotype of tourists travelling across the world to scroll on their phones, talk loudly and never walk anywhere. Having recently been to Greece, I can say that this statement is sometimes accurate. A big part of travelling is immersing yourself in your surroundings, understanding local customs and trying new dishes, but sometimes that sentiment gets lost in translation.

    While travelling in Athens, Greece recently with nothing but a backpack and my torn-up tabis, I concluded there are two very different types of travellers — those who often take public transportation or walk everywhere and try to shop local versus the tourists who taxi, take Ubers and often shop at retail chains they can find back home. 

    Food critic and world traveller Anthony Bourdain is popular for his unfiltered, raw opinions on life, people and food. With Bourdain’s popularity growing owing to his biopic coming out on Aug. 7, his advocacy for travelling has been making a significant comeback into the mainstream media. Bourdain wasn’t just a food critic but an author who always shared the truth with his audiences. 

    My sister, a lifetime Bourdain fan, couldn’t help mentioning how different our travel experience was from what Bourdain recommends — “Travel isn’t always pretty. It isn’t always comfortable. Sometimes it hurts, it even breaks your heart. But that’s okay. The journey changes you; it should change you. It leaves marks on your memory, on your consciousness, on your heart, and on your body.” 

    While in Greece with my group of friends, many wanted to take a taxi, whereas I was opposed to it. They wanted to shop at Zara instead of local shops and fell into multiple tourist traps all in the same day. Travellers and tourists aren’t all that different — in retrospect, it’s about attitude and respecting local culture.  

    I think there are a lot of memories made from carrying heavy backpacks with your friends through the streets of the cities you’re staying in, or from eating street food from a local vendor. Even though staying in a comfortable resort is more than ideal to some, I think there’s something special about having a travel experience that is not so clean-cut and coming back with stories to tell. 

    If I have any piece of advice for anyone, much like Anthony Bourdain, it would be to travel as much as you can wherever you can. You do not have to have a lot of money to travel. Some of the best memories I have ever made abroad were made with very little money and practically a credit card and a dream. My piece of advice to anyone would be to go anywhere or everywhere, even if it’s a day trip to the town over — get out of the city and explore.